Danger Quiz

Answer each question by choosing "Often", "Sometimes", "Hardly Ever", or "Never". Click submit and determine your Abuse Index Score. You will know if you are in an abusive relationship that might become violent.

1. Does he make you account for every minute (when you run errands, visit friends, go to work, etc)?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

2. Does he ever say you are having affairs or act like he thinks you are?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

3. Is he ever rude to your friends?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

4. Does he ever try to stop you from starting friendships with other women?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

5. Do you ever feel alone, as if there was nobody close to you to talk to?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

6. Is he very critical of daily things, like your cooking, or the way you look or dress?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

7. Does he need to know how you spend ever penny?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

8. Do his moods change quickly from very calm to very angry or angry to calm?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

9. Is he upset by your working or by the thought of your working?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

10. Does he get angry more easily if he drinks?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

11. Does he push you for sex much more than you'd like?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

12. Do you argue about bills and money?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

13. Do you argue about having children or how to raise them?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

14. Does he ever hit, punch, kick you?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

15. Does he ever hit you with anything?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

16. Does he ever threaten you with an object or a weapon?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

17. Has he ever said he will kill himself or you?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

18. Does he ever give you welts, bruises, cuts, or lumps on your head?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

19. Have you ever had to use first aid for any injuries from him?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

20. Have you ever had to get aid for any injury from him at a medical clinic, doctor's office, or hospital emergency room?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

21. Does he ever hurt you sexually or make you have sex against your will?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

22. Is he ever violent with kids?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

23. Is he ever violent toward people outside the family?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

24. Does he ever throw or break things when he is angry?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

25. Has he ever been in trouble with the police?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

26. Have you ever called the police or tried to call them because you felt you or others were in danger from him?
Often
Sometimes
Hardly Ever
Never

Quiz Adapted by VK Lawson from Family Secret by William A. Stacey and Anson Shupe